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The Shadow Encounter

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Written by Peace Eneja It was cold that night. The harmattan had gotten intense. If I wasn't in Nigeria, I would be expecting a snow fall. My ribs shaking ,the same movement as my lips. I was shivering at a corner, praying that I lay my hand on something, anything at all that I could use to keep myself warm. I was alone in the dark, in the middle of nowhere. I couldn't even tell what I was doing there. Then suddenly I saw a tree moving closer like a masquerade towards me.  Oh! That's funny, because trees don't have legs, so why would they move...sorry walk?  For a moment, I thought it wasn't real, it shouldn't be. Then I closed my eyes so tight, hoping that it was just a dream, that it'll soon go away. Then I opened them again, it was still there, as real as day light, right in front of me. Then I started to run as fast as I could, throwing my legs away...sorry my shoes. But it was still chasing me, right here and there. I couldn't outrun it. &q

What Everyone Wants

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It’s amazing how we are all connected-connected by the dots of our wants, needs and desires. I know that we all seem to be different obviously from our colours, sexes, races, religion, social backgrounds etc. But I’ve always had this thought- that apart from the fact that we’re all humans and share a single fear which is death, somehow there’s something that makes us all the same. So I did a research only to find out that my assumption is true. When you go out every morning, try to pause and look around a little bit. You’ll see lots of people rushing somewhere, to work, school,  market etc. Basically everyone you see is busy, doing something, going somewhere. Ever wondered what they’re looking for wherever they might be going? – Happiness.  Think about it, when you go to work, you hope to get paid at the end of the day/month to be able to pay your bills and meet other needs, which in turn gives you peace of mind and happiness that comes from fulfillment. People in relati

Today's Inspiration

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 Thinking about living a more meaningful life? A life that'll always be remembered and one that makes an impact? Well, I think you'll like this post adapted from www.rehma.co.nz. An inspirational written by Bobb and Debby Gas. If you like it, share it!                                              Give Yourself Away! "What do people usually value more than your money? You! Think about it. What takes greater effort - writing a cheque or giving of your time and energy? Which shows a greater level of commitment? Take a moment and recall the people who've had the greatest impact on you: a teacher who helped you realise you could think, learn and achieve; a parent who loved you, sacrificed for you and gave you the gift of self-worth; a mentor who painted a picture of your future then equipped and challenged you to reach for it. Next to your salvation, what could be greater?Ponder these words: 'When you come to look back on all that you have done in life, you wi

Valentine's Day for Broken Hearts

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I won't say that I don't expect everyone to understand this post because actually I do. So this one's for everyone...everyone who's ever loved but knows how it feels to be rejected, everyone who has a spouse and family but knows what it is to lose a loved one, everyone who's not handicapped but understands what it means to be deformed in one way or the other, everyone who is successful but understands what it means to fail, everyone who's country is in peace or at least something close to it, but understands what war means for a country. It's not out of place for us to be carried away by the joy and other intimate feelings that accompany Valentine's day celebrations. I'm quite sure most people have made reservations and planned how they'll celebrate, which is absolutely good. But it is necessary that I remind us the things which in my opinion are even more important. Ever wondered what Valentine's day celebration would be for tho

The untold story of the African woman

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Written by Peace Eneja I thought I should write a post about the African woman. Now this is not the usual thing we see on the internet when you type the word "African woman ", although I'd say that Google has improved a lot in its representation of Africa. No longer the old images of black people almost starving to death, putting on tattered clothes, looking unkempt with their " kinky hair that can't make a pony tail". The old image of people who should be pitied and are in need of immediate help, like someone should call 911... lol. This post is about what I call the untold story of the African woman. I must say I'm proud to be an African and an African woman as a matter of fact. And this is my inspiration for this post.  I was in the market few days ago, and I don't mean the supermarket, shopping mall, shoprite, shop good and all other fine names we give to well constructed shopping arena with air condition all over the place. What I m

The secret to real happines

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Recently, I had a conversation with a friend of mine that's been married for a year and half now. We were discussing the role men play in women's lives...in her own candid perspective, she said that the major role her husband plays in her life is to make her happy in everything and make sure she never lacks anything. Well many Nigerian women would totally agree with her in that aspect but I had to ponder more on this point untill I asked my self, she might be right but shouldn't one find joy in oneself and be satisfied with oneself first before people can then treat one as such? No seriously, don't get me wrong. I mean our men are trying and infact some men actually do go the extra mile for their spouses which makes marriage more meaningful. And there's nothing wrong in expecting your hubby to live up to some certain duties he's meant to do. And to be honest, men love to be in charge and one of the ways to make them feel like "the boss" is le

STYLE + on Hostzine; weddings, fashion and beauty

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On fashion today, Hostzine's got something for the guys. Cute designs picked from top Africa's Designers. Style+ is the place for gentle men. It's fabulous and awesome.  Also Victoriaf Events has something for couples looking for trendy designs to spice up their day. Have a look... It's valentine! Celebrate the African way. Go traditional and still look sexy! Check out these cute designs from FinAfrik and get ideas for your valentine outfits. You can never go wrong with a touch of red! ***Manniquine makeovers is getting stronger, bigger and better! Featuring in popular weddings and other events, check this out! Also check out these easy lecture outfits by Cassie daves .